Did you know your gut has such a strong nervous system connection that many call it a second brain?
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This is Chapter 2 of my book From No Direction to Clear Direction – Guided by My True Values.
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If you do not understand how the brain and gut work together, it might keep you away from your dreams.
On the other hand, understanding this connection can help you move forward with greater clarity.
You are biologically designed to move toward what matters to you.
You may already know parts of this, but read carefully, because this understanding could become a new start for you too.
We are born into a life where everything we do is influenced by signals inside the brain and nervous system.
The brain in our head is influenced by thoughts, hormones, and external experiences.
Hormones send signals through neurotransmitters into the body, and the body constantly sends signals back to the brain.
What many people do not realize is that the gut has its own highly complex nervous system. This is why many refer to it as a “second brain.”
This gut-brain connection is incredibly powerful.
Think about when you are in love. We often say:
“I have butterflies in my stomach.”
That sensation is not imaginary. It reflects real communication between your brain, nervous system, and gut.
The upper brain is strongly connected to thinking, planning, and analyzing.
The gut is strongly connected to instinct, intuition, and emotional responses.
Together, they constantly communicate and influence how you feel, decide, and act.
I do not want to explain too many scientific terms here, but some understanding is necessary.
Imagine when you are born. Everything you do is based on instinct.
Yes, your mother feeds you milk, and your parents protect you so that you stay warm and safe.
But when you begin to move, communicate with sounds, and later with words, much of your development is instinctive.
You try, you fail, you learn, and you feel.
It is completely natural.
You cannot understand complex concepts as a newborn. If someone tried to teach you to walk when you were only a few weeks or months old, it would not work.
Your body and brain develop when they are ready.
Why you will find your direction inside yourself—and why you should follow your instincts
I remember a friend once saying:
“If I had a blog, I would travel much more, because I love traveling, taking photos, and writing.”
When I asked her why she wanted to do that, she did not have an answer.
I also remember watching a speech by Professor Nuccio Ordine from Cosenza, speaking at an event in Pordenone in northern Italy.
After the speech, a woman approached him in tears and said:
“I am a dentist, but I am not happy. Your speech moved me. My career was not my choice. I simply followed in the footsteps of others.”
That stayed with me.
How many people are living lives they never truly chose?
How many people are following a path that looks good from the outside, but feels empty on the inside?
The difference between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation
When you understand this difference, it can make a huge difference in your life, let's dive in:
As we grow older, people around us, and often society itself, tell us what is normal and what we should do.
You begin listening to what others tell you, or what society makes you believe is right for you.
But how can they know what you truly want?
Do they know your core values?
Do they know what matters most to you?
Do they know what is best for your life?
People often say things like:
“Follow your heart.”
“Find your passion.”
“What do you want to achieve?”
But what if what others suggest does not actually fit who you are?
What if what society rewards is not what feels meaningful to you?
This is where many people disconnect from themselves:Â
They stop listening to their instincts.
They stop paying attention to what feels meaningful.
They begin following external expectations instead of internal signals.
This is where the differences between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation begins to be clear:Â
Extrinsic motivation is: when you do something because of external rewards, pressure, validation, money, status, or approval.
Intrinsic motivation is different:Â It is the internal drive to do something because it feels meaningful, interesting, satisfying, or aligned with who you are.
This is where real direction begins.
Not by asking what others want from you.
But by asking yourself:
What feels meaningful to me?
What gives me energy?
What do I feel naturally drawn toward?
This is where you begin finding your own direction.
And this is where the next chapter begins.
Start here to find your direction