Do you feel stuck β€” but not sure which direction to move in?Β 

From No Direction to Clear Direction – Guided by my true values

A free book written step by step to help you reflect, grow, and find your own direction in life.

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"My goal in writing this book is to help others find balance and purpose in life."

Welcome β€” my name is Roger Hol.

I am not a therapist or a life coach.

I am someone who has been lost, burned out, and literally woken up by a brain surgery β€” and who found his way back to clarity through honest inner work, daily practice, and finally understanding what truly drives him.

This book is what I wish I had found years earlier.

It is completely free, and I am self-publishing it here because I want it to reach as many people as possible β€” especially those who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or simply ready for something to change.

If that is you, you are in the right place.

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Writing this book has been one of the most meaningful things I have ever done.


Every mistake I have made, every moment of confusion, every person who supported me along the way β€” it all led here.

And that is exactly what this book is about.

Not a perfect life. Not a dramatic transformation overnight.

But the quiet, honest process of finding out who you are, what you value, and which direction is truly yours to follow.

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My starting point was burnout.


From there came a serious injury β€” and a brain surgery that woke me up, completely and literally.

But the real journey had begun much earlier than that.

As a child, I was curious about life and wanted to explore everything. We all have that in us β€” that natural pull toward certain things, that instinct that knows before our mind catches up.

Somewhere along the way, most of us lose touch with it.

This book helps you find it again.

Your brain is wired in ways that can quietly pull you away from what matters most β€” toward distraction, toward other people's expectations, toward a life that looks right from the outside but feels empty on the inside.

Understanding why that happens is the first step toward changing it.

And yes β€” it can be changed.


Everything great that ever happened in this world happened first in somebody’s imagination.
- Astrid Lindgren

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Your brain is wired in ways that can pull you away from what matters most. This book helps you understand why β€” and what to do about it.